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I grew up in a home where love was assumed.
In my neighborhood, parents worked jobs, had children, enjoyed their small luxuries—color television, decent cars, wall-to-wall carpet—and lived quiet.
Love in action was a roof over your head, food on the table, and presents at Christmas and birthdays.
Love was not spoken. But I did hear powerful words . . . “who does he think I am?” and “look what I’ve had to put up with” and “I’m not going out of my way for THOSE PEOPLE.”
And I saw love as something to be doled out in small portions—like when dessert had to stretch to the seven of us crowded around our table.
Where more for someone else meant less for me. So I hid & hoarded my share.
During my teen years, God touched my life. I gave my heart to Him, and He filled it to overflowing.
I read verses like John 4:13&14 . . .
. . . and Romans 8:38&39 . . .
It almost seemed wasteful, pouring out all that on a life as small as mine.
I wanted to believe in that love, to live in it, to share it. But something about the odd choice of words in Romans 8:38 niggled in my brain.
Was LIFE something to fear, something that might separate me from God? The idea seemed ridiculous.
Then I grew older and the happily-ever-afters I dreamed of as a girl fell apart.
I discovered how LIFE can scrape and press and grind until the overflowing fountain of my heart became a broken cistern.
And I once again became a hoarder, trying to stop up even the trickles of love that were seeping away.
When I tried to guard my own heart, I not only shut others out—I shut myself off from God’s love as well.
How did He fix me? He broke me even more.
When I allowed Him to work—He demolished that cracked cistern and replaced it once again with the wellspring of His love.
God showed me that He is greater than my heart & I can trust Him to guard it.
So I can be filled enough to overflow and yet never be left feeling empty.
I’m blessed that you stopped by today, friends. Have a beautiful week!
***Did I mention this post is part of a blog tour? Emily T. Wierenga, award-winning journalist and author of 4 books, has released her first memoir, Atlas Girl: Finding Home in the Last Place I Thought to Look. They say the book is like “Girl Meets God” meets “Wild” meets “Eat, Pray, Love.” I say the book is inspiring. You can grab a copy here.
For God is greater than our worried hearts & knows more about us than we do ourselves. ~I John 3:20, The Message~
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