When God Said No

Renee Ann Smith —  June 16, 2014 — 11 Comments

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Last week, I wrote about the heartache I sometimes feel when God doesn’t give me what I want. I’ve had this problem since I was small. You see, I just don’t like taking “no” for an answer!

Though I’m ashamed to admit it, there have been times in my adult life when a “no” from God reduced me to a sulking, bitter child again. I sometimes even looked for a way around what God had denied me—-another way to gain satisfaction outside of His will. Nowadays when I feel that temptation coming on, I flip my Bible open to Luke 22. This chapter records Jesus’ final hours before He went to the cross.

Verse 39 says, “Jesus went out as usual to the Mount of Olives, and his disciples followed him. On reaching the place, he said to them, ‘Pray that you will not fall into temptation.’

Then Jesus, whose heart was greatly burdened, poured out His agony to His Father.

“He withdrew about a stone’s throw beyond them, knelt down and prayed,

Abba, if you are willing, take this cup from me; yet not my will, but yours be done.’

An angel from heaven appeared to him and strengthened him. And being in anguish, he prayed more earnestly, and his sweat was like drops of blood falling to the ground.”


Even at the time of His betrayal and arrest, on the eve of His suffering, Jesus called God Daddy. Jesus brought His request to His loving Father and—-trusting Him completely—-left it there.

When God Said No

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And His loving Father answered, “No.”

“No” to the one and only begotten of God, full of grace and truth.

“No” to the Daystar from on high, who brought light to our darkness.

“No” to the beloved Son with whom God was well pleased.

God said “no”—not because Jesus’ request was selfish or sinful—but because He had an integral part for His Son to play in the redemption of mankind.

God said “no” to Jesus because of us.

Because of that great “no,” Jesus did go to the cross and the veil was torn in two and the way made clear so that now I—a sinful daughter with no standing of my own—can enter God’s presence and lay my requests at His feet.

And because God delights in me and does all things well, I can trust that whether He tells me “yes” or “no,” His answer always comes from love.

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When God Said NoA “no” from God does not necessarily mean that my request is sinful or selfish. It just means that He has something greater in mind for me than what I can imagine, much less ask for.

  • His “nos” are always blessed.

  • His “nos” are always best.

  • And in His hands, our hearts can rest.

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I’m blessed that you stopped by today, friends. Have a beautiful week!

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Renee Ann Smith

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I teach literature in a Christian high school by day and write inspirational fiction by night. I love to share heart-touching quotes and stories here on my blog. So glad you stopped by!

11 responses to When God Said No

  1. This post covers such a critical topic. I’ve seen so many Christians almost completely give up because the answer wasn’t what they thought it should be. A lot of times His answers seem unloving, but our trust in His love is the key. Thank you so much for this reminder of a Mighty God at work in our lives even when we can’t see the outcome or understand why.

  2. Wonderful, timely encouragement! Thanks Renee!

  3. Yes, Renee! This is a wonderful post. Thank you, thank you, thank you for sharing!!!

  4. Great wisdom in this post. It’s good to remember that when God says, “No” it’s for our benefit.

  5. Renee,
    I think this may be one of my favorite posts by you. Such a powerful message. I’m sitting here reflecting on what you shared. Oh how I pray if God tells me “no” on something that I remember what you shared here. So good. Thank you for sharing with Three Word Wednesday. Blessings.

  6. Such truth — I love the way you worded the “nos” to Jesus. It helps to remember that when we get a no from God. Yes, His nos are always best! What really attached itself to my heart was that Jesus call God Daddy in the midst of what He was facing. ~Pamela

  7. Renee…Good stuff here. I have been on the receiving end of God’s “no” and it isn’t easy. However, God knows best even in the midst of deep heartache. This is not always something we grasp when we’re hurting. The reminder of Jesus’ “no” really puts it all in perspective. Thank you for a precious post and for sharing it at Monday’s Musings. Blessings to you.

  8. Dear Renee,

    Thank you for sharing such an important post with us. Our hearts want to rebel against NO – but it is only in retrospect that we learn that NO is sometimes just what we need.

    Congratulations – you are one of our featured writers at this week’s Inspire Me Monday party at Create With Joy! 🙂

  9. Renee, your graphics just get better and better!! Thanks for this post.

  10. Thank you for taking time to leave some words of wisdom & encouragement, ladies. I so appreciate how you bless me each week!

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