Losing Yourself (guest post & giveaway)

Renee Ann Smith —  January 13, 2014 — 23 Comments
“Do unto others as if you were the other.” Amish proverb
Today I’m privilege to share a Guest Post & GIVEAWAY from bestselling author Suzanne Woods Fisher!

From Suzanne . . . When you were young and someone asked what you wanted to be when you grew up, what did you say? I dreamed of becoming a writer, but for you maybe it was a magician or musician, a farmer or a flautist. Or maybe you weren’t sure. Maybe you still aren’t sure.

suzanne woods the callingThe heroine in my latest novel, Bethany Schrock, is at that very crossroads in her life. Her hopes and dreams for the future have shattered like a broken teacup. In The Calling, we find Bethany depressed, frustrated and trying to figure out what she was put on this Earth to do.

Enter five old Amish sisters who run a soup kitchen for the down-and-outers of Stoney Ridge. They scoop Bethany into their big-hearted efforts, convinced she’d make a fine addition to the sisterhood. Reluctant at first, Bethany warms to the work as she feels the stirrings of happiness come to life. Little by little, through serving others, Bethany finds her calling.

Those old Amish sisters know a secret: You Can Find Yourself by Losing Yourself. In the novel, as Bethany cares for others, she spends less time dwelling on her troubles. Here’s an excerpt from Bethany’s story . . .

“It was easy for Bethany to ladle up the chili soup for these down-and-outers, feeling something warm like kindness or goodness fill her chest. At least, she did feel a pleasant glow until the teens from the Group Home, filled with bravado, pushing and jabbing each other, came in knots of two and three.

Bethany followed Geena’s lead and spoke to each one as she brought out the bowls of chili soup on a tray. ‘Good afternoon’ and ‘How are you?’ and ‘Would you like chili?’ Most didn’t answer and kept their eyes down, but the angry red haired girl met her eyes, almost in a hostile challenge — Do you see me?

I’m trying, Bethany thought. But you make it so difficult.

In that moment, she realized she hadn’t thought about her problems all day long. It was happening each time she helped at the sisters’ soup kitchen. She forgot all that troubled her, for a little while, anyway.

She turned to serve the next girl, a round girl with acne and thick glasses, who smiled at her.

This felt . . . good. Really good.”

January is the time of year for new starts. If you’re struggling to find your calling, consider volunteering, in some way, for those less fortunate.

To borrow an Amish proverb, “The real secret of happiness is not what you give or what you receive. It’s what you share.”

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Whether you’ve already found your calling or you’re still searching for purpose and fulfillment, I’m thankful you’ve brought Bethany and me along for the ride.

Have a blessed New Year! Suzanne Woods Fisher

GIVEAWAY: Suzanne has graciously offered to give away a copy of The Calling to one of you! Enter below . . .


You can find yourself by losing yourself. (Click to Tweet)

Do unto others as if you were the other. (Click to Tweet)

suzanne woods fisher author workingAbout the Author: Suzanne Woods Fisher is a bestselling author of Amish fiction and non-fiction and a columnist for Christian Post and Cooking & Such Magazine. Her book The Waiting is a finalist for a 2011 Christy Award. Amish Peace and Amish Proverbs were both finalists for the ECPA Book of the Year (2010, 2011).

Her interest in the Amish began with her grandfather, W.D. Benedict, who was raised Plain. Suzanne has a great admiration for the Plain people and believes they provide wonderful examples to the world.  When Suzanne isn’t writing or bragging to her friends about her grandbabies, she is raising puppies for Guide Dogs for the Blind. To Suzanne’s way of thinking, you just can’t take life too seriously when a puppy is tearing through your house with someone’s underwear in its mouth.

You can connect with Suzanne on her Facebook page, on Twitter, or at her blog.

This week I might be linking up with Inspire Me Monday, Sharing His Beauty, Mommmy Monday Blog Hop, Monday Musings, Hear It on Sunday, Unite @Rich Faith Rising, Modest Mondays, Mom’s Monday Mingle, Teach Me Tuesdays, Titus 2 Tuesdays, Teaching What Is Good, What I Learned This Week, Titus 2sday Link-up, Raising Homemakers, Deep Roots at Home, Wholehearted Home Wednesdays, Winsome Wednesday, Wise Woman Wednesday, Works for Me Wednesday, Whimsy Wednesday, In Him We Live, Juana Mikels Wednesday Link-up, Hope in Every Season Homemaking Party, Thursday Favorite Things, Thriving Thursday, Hearts for Home, Thoughtful Thursday, Cozy Book Hop, Booknificent Thursday, Tell His Story, Thought Provoking Thursday, Raising Mighty Arrows, Share the Joy Thursday, Time Travel Thursday, Thrive @Home Link Up, Grace at Home, Faith-filled Friday, Fellowship Friday, Friendship Friday, Freedom Friday, Womanhood w/ Purpose Friday Link Up, Essential Friday Link-up, Sunday Collective, Sunday Stillness, and Heart Reflected.

Renee Ann Smith

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I teach literature in a Christian high school by day and write inspirational fiction by night. I love to share heart-touching quotes and stories here on my blog. So glad you stopped by!

23 responses to Losing Yourself (guest post & giveaway)

  1. Love (!!!) the Amish proverb you have shared here. Thank you!

  2. This looks gooood! Count me in. 🙂

  3. This book looks like a keeper. I can relate somewhat to the story after serving a mission in the Inner City. Your graphic is beautiful as always and I am so happy you share them. I chose the word Charity for my word for the year and this post fits right in there with many of my thoughts about serving others.
    Blessings and hugs!

  4. Hi Renee,

    I haven’t read any of Suzanne’s books yet, but thank you for this interview here.

    Have a great week,
    Jennifer Dougan

  5. This book looks delightful! I can relate to this story a little after searching for a long time and finally figuring out my own calling. Thank you for sharing! I found you on Thrive @ Home Thursday 🙂

  6. Never heard that proverb before but it is a really good one!


  7. “Depressed, frustrated, and trying to figure out what she was out on this earth to do”… Hmm… Sounds like I could learn a lot and relate with this one! Thanks for posting! Katie

  8. Sharon Holweger January 19, 2014 at 1:06 pm

    I love al of Suzanne’s books and would love to with this one, the other entry form seems to have no place to send to enter.

  9. I love Suzanne’s books…have read all of them. I’d love to win…and could pass this one on. Hugs and God bless.

  10. Would so enjoy reading this book, thank you for good clean books! Blessings…..

  11. I love that probverb. Looking forward to reading this book.

  12. Barbara Michels January 19, 2014 at 2:28 pm

    I love reading your other books so cant wait to read this one also.

  13. Jackie Tessnair January 19, 2014 at 2:28 pm

    I love Suzanne’s books.Thanks for the sharing this post…sounds great.Love your blog.

  14. I love Suzanne’s books!!the Amish books are always so good!!

  15. I always wanted to be a beautician.. well, I became a nurse first and later an early childhood teacher!

  16. like your books. havejust started reading them.like readingyour blog.

  17. Thanks for featuring Suzanne. Her books are always inspiring and heart felt.
    I am looking forward to following you on F B. I enjoyed tis post

  18. Love the “Amish proverb”!!
    Love to win Suzanne’s book “The Calling”~ The book sounds really good, of course, love all of her books. I’d love to read this because I think I could relate to Bethany. Thank you for the giveaway and Renee for hosting this!

  19. The proverbs are wonderful to read.

  20. Yay! So excited to read this!

  21. Love reading articles from authors, they are so nice. I’m so grateful you shared with Cozy Reading Spot.


  22. would love to win this book,Thanks

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